Scorpios in bed astrology
Likewise, any shady parts of your relationship like jealousy, hiding secrets, or even infidelity eek! It might be BIG or impact you on a subconscious level that you barely notice. Feelings are running high, your sex drive is running even higher , and a fun extra perk is that Venus in Scorpio might just get you a surprise bonus on your next paycheck. Expect hella right swipes, a ton of cuties sliding into your DMs—the whole shebang.
Enjoy it! Right now, you want nothing more than a deep, spiritual connection with someone else. You got 99 problems and all of them are potential lovers! Old partners might come back around, the worst of the worst in your current relationship is coming out , and the next few weeks are all about pinpointing the baggage and what needs to GTFO of your love life. For the most part, Venus in Scorpio is helping you solidify your circle of closest friends and pick who you most want in your squad.
Obviously, the same wants from her lover. You will discover that they are very experienced and capable women who know exactly what to do to satisfy the desires of their lover. She is not prudish about love and she eliminates all the inhibitions which can have. She never takes relationships lightly and requires a mate exactly the same way. At first, it may seem very difficult to conquer such a woman, but when you finally come to bed with her, it is an unforgettable experience. She always leaves in her lover, signs of love, either with scratches and marks or poisonous stings.
She is ready for any sexual particularities, but she needs to be the boss. Her body leaves nice promises. Anywhere you touch her, she likes it too much!. A relationship with a Scorpio woman can be risky but it is worth it! She has her sex mood swings while the Scorpio has all the other mood swings. One thing I think people misunderstand about Scorpio is that we are jealous: which means we desire what others have.
Personality Traits of a Scorpio
Completely untrue. We are protective: meaning we protect what is ours. I always see that being said and never get it. I'm rarely jealous of anyone but don't screw with what I love. Really, don't harm it. The one thing we have evolved is how we fight. I know how to sting but wouldn't. I'll even protect her from me. And while her inquisitive mind demands she asks times "Why" or "what's wrong" until I explode, she's toned it down. Sometime letting a Scorpio calm himself is more productive than delving into their mind.
Scary stuff in there sometimes. Most beautiful, fabulous, mysterious person I've ever met. I'm a scorpio woman dating a Aquarius male. We've been dating for 2 years our relationship has been full of happy memories, adventures, deep intellectual conversations. I'd consider myself a evolved Scorpio because we do get those feelings of jealousy.
I choose not to make a big deal and trust him completely. People say Scorpios are possessive but as an evolved Scorpio you enjoy your independence and alone time as much as the Aquarius. His mom is a Scorpio as well and a intense one too. So he's used to our Scorpio energy. Before this relationship I dated around a lot and I haven't felt as secure and evolutionary as I do with him. We really do help each other grow. Our sexual connect is so profound and mental connection we honestly feel and think like the same person. Everyone is different no one is fixed.
I've always wanted a relationship that didn't block me from my passions. I'm blessed to have found it. The Phoenix raising from the ashes is the perfect represent of this relationship. You'll just keep evolving together in a positive way. If you date someone expect deep Intellectual conversations, spontaneous dates, travel, deep bonding sex, deep understanding, space for growth, lots of intimacy.
So very true i found this out to be. Thank you for this article. I now have a better understanding of my husband. Im able to use this to help the both of us maintain and keep our marriage successful. Well done and Fantastically Put! And yes in all respects he was very selfish at the starting of our relationship, reserved closed off from affection and communication and especially thoughts.
Before we hooked up and became boyfriend and girlfriend he would visit my house often to the point where i would either pretend that i werent home, or pretend i was going out and i would literally go away for the day from my home with my kids only to avoid him. I avoided him because I was thinking that this man Aquarius man was either hitting on me or just lonely and wanted a friend. But as i was pregnant and suffering from a crap and short previous relationship virgo baby daddy at the time being a solo mother I didnt want this Aquarius guy to get involved with me because to me he just wasnt my type.
And now hes perfect for me. But i found that out after learning about him, it wasnt easy and it still isnt easy for us. As i can be quite direct, and over powering towards him when all im asking for his communication sometimes. My darling can close off sometimes but its there that I pick at him to open him up again and he does.
Finding and Keeping the Scorpio Man
He calms me some days and he destructs me the other days Hahahaha! We live together in my home. My kids and his kids Next to his rental house that he still has in his name, We use to live in between each others homes. But being a scorpio I Expect my own Security. Although my personality has kicked him out almost on a fortnightly basis in the past he always comes back, He tells me he cant live without me. He says if I never want him again then he'll completely disappear and never be seen again. I love him and his ways and sometimes i hate his ways. I will still dissect and investigate every word, action, motives, intentions and his mind to the day we die together.
I need and want him and he needs and want me. But i believe that hes strong and loving enough to calm and put out this fire because He loves Me and I love him. An Aquarius and Scorpio speak the same language Let it be! Let the energy flow! If you are an empathic Aquarius You will climb mountains with this! Defeat nations with this ability with him! The hand squeezes, the all of a sudden make out sessions.. Stop over thinking things! Know this, and go live your life.
Be strong and confident in who u are as an Aquarius female! We are the strongest out there! I should appreciate the writer.. Each and every word is like very very exact.. I I'm really surprised how can someone be so accurate. Scorpio, protect yourself from Aquarius, because they are the people who during an identity crisis will send you in jail..
Scorpio must search people with a stable and balanced mind zodiac sign from May to September because Scorpio has so much important goals in life that he must pursue those goals.. Our love is beautiful I'm a Scorpio and he's an aquarius it's like he's my soulmate when I met him it was kinda like I knew him. Iam aqua girl and he is scorpio. He is one of the best things in my life so far happened to me. With him i felt wanted and needed. I love him a lot. A lot. I value honesty and he was honest. I wanted to be cared of and he cared for me. He has pampered me, spoilt me and settled down for me.
I am bad at expressing my emotions but with him i learnt to unfold it too. He used to like me too but then our ways apparently parted because of our families issues. I even love him today. We occasionally talk, but why; i don't know. I remember each and every moment we spent together. He respected me a lot, loved me like i didn't know about love and its feelings before i met him. I feel like now he has turn cold towards me. I don't know if he still likes me or not. Its gonna b 2 years almost and I'm still waiting for our destiny to send him back in my life.
I wish if I could ever hear that he loves me and he is mine and he owns me. I wish May all odds be in favor of us. I like honesty and he was honest. I am bad at expressing but with him i learnt it. He used to like me too but then our ways parted because of our families issues. He used to express and make me feel like i never felt that way before and most of all he respected our relation.
I have loved him so much, for so long, so completely, that I wish I could be whoever it is that the Aquarius needs. I'm an Aquarius woman that loves a Scorpio man. This article was so us, but he stung me too many times.. I ended up changing my number to keep myself away from him and vice versa.
I hope I come across an evolved Scorpio one day bc we truly are the best for each other, in my opinion. The laughs, random moments and faith I had in us were almost worth all the tears. The shit sucks bc I feel like I will be going through the motions forever. I had so many more moments and words I wanted to share with him. So in your opinion what would be the best compatible sign in terms of sun, moon, and rising for a scorpio sun, leo rising, aquarius moon?
I'm an Aquarius and had relations with a Scorpio and we just got back in each other's grace's. I miss her, love her the list can go on. But she's in a relationship yet our history kept us in thought of each other through the years we lost I haven't found no woman in my past relationships worth my heart, time and love more than she do and I want her back and want to rekindled the romance we once encountered. But how can I make that possible. I love her. Blues is when a woman leaves you, but also when she comes back. I mean, better. God Bless You the writer you are extremely talented. This is extremely accurate.
We are going on 5 years now and extremely connected mentally and now more attached emotionally. My Aquarius boyfriend can be very distant sometimes. There are days when I think everything is great but days I overthink things and feel bad. Any advice? Is this typical for a Scorpio woman and Aquarius man? Thank you for writing this wonderful piece. We are both so strong and so fragile at the same time.
I want to say we are both extreme embodiments of our signs. I am a very emotional and intense person and need a lot of attention and physical closeness, time, and affection. My aqua man on the other hand is very withdrawn, he cares but does not express it much. He can go days without speaking to me and even longer without seeing me - he likes his space and privacy very much.
It has taken me a full year to realize just how truly slow moving he is but how great his intentions are.
I can be patient and supportive but only for so long. But in the mean time it all feels worth it. I just need to catch my downward spiral thinking and intense emotions that work me up over nothing. This was incredible thank you. I understood every part completely. You really know your stuff. Deepest explaination iv ever read of both sign,it makes me curious to what your sign is As an aqua, never been attracted to a scorpio until in the recently.
My long term relationship with a virgo came to an end sometime ago, and that was due to other issues, we had a strong mental connection but not much beyond that.
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I decided to end it, did not want to waste anymore time on something broken. And I guess one thing i do hate about being an aqua is sometimes living too much in my mind and completely forgetting about my heart and how I really feel. I am unsure about starting a relationship with a scorp now, as I feel am still getting back on my feet after the breakup, and need to focus my energy on myself for a bit. I don't like leading a person on, and would like to give all of myself to relationship. I agree with not giving us aquas too much space and time apart.
When we are alone too long, and I have experienced this, I end up been drawn to the latter, my mind wins, and I start over-analyzing things. At this moment we can begin to feel cold and distant, and become unsure of our emotions altogether because of all the over-analyzing. I have a very close relationship with my mum, who is a scorp. So I kinda speak their language a little bit!. I think there are two sides to scorps. When they are in secure situation, where there is stability, they know where things are going and their needs are being met.
When there are in an insecure situation where non of that is happening, you better run for the hills. Scorps get a bad rep, but they actually really kind and giving, and most of the time don't get that back in return. They deserve so much more. I would say aqua and scorp relationship can be challenging because of communication. I think aquas should only pursue this relationship if they are in it for the long run and are willing to provide a secure situation for the scorp meet their needs. I have asked Andrea and it would seem she is no longer sure what she wants to do or where her life is taking her.
She is also unsure of her feelings for me which was a little hard to hear. I have agreed to be patient and see where it goes, we are still messaging, talking and meeting regularly and I am just keeping it light and fun. Have you talked in detail about what happened during the trip? Maybe the Aquarius is experiencing culture shock from being gone so long and is now adjusting to her home life. Try bringing back some charm, take them on a nice date. Get them a thoughtful gift only you could pull off.
It sounds like you have had a bad experience. If two people do not understand each other's communication style, then it will not work or gain momentum. Sometimes Aquarius wants to try something to see if it works but the real momentum doesn't take off. Sometimes Scorpio comes into the relationship with too much expectation and bombs the possibility of growth.
Both need patience. This is to answer David from florida. I know you posted 6 months ago, and hopefully you see this.. So you say your scorpio lady left when you were going through a bout of depression, im guessing you became distant, and did not communicate, us scorpios hate that, because we lean on our partners for emotional support not run away and we want you to do the same or at least communicate..
We hate anything hot and cold. Its not good to give a scorpio too much space without communication, we will move on, a scorpio woman needs to feel loved and wanted, if your in an out of her life she will see you as not being consistant and leave, and may become upset and never talk to you again. Now if she is showing up to places she knows she will run into you, then she probably wants you to say something to her, if she never wanted to speak to you again she would avoid running into.. Well thats what i would do Your message was so long ago so you may not see this, but I would love to know how things turned out with you and the Scorpio that you were afraid to let your guard down with.
My Aquarius who I had been casually dating for 12 Months went away on a trip for 2 Months, we agreed to message every few days but not excessively. I concur with this, if I could go back to the beginning of her trip away I would have done things differently! Now I guess I will just have to see if things can get back to where they were! I would also like to point out that some of you Aquarius on here already know you're not going to continue long lasting relationships with the people you're dating, so why not let them go now.
Why play around with someones emotions stringing them along for months although you know at this moment you dont want anything long term.. As a Scorpio I will never understand this, Some advice if a scorpio tells you they love you, please be honest with them if you dont, we do not like to waist our times. Also an Aqua stated that giving to much space to them is not good, dont understand that considering Aquarius disappear, they take their space, so what are you supposed do stalk them, that makes no sense..
I am a Scorpio woman and have been dating an Aquarius off an on for 10 years.. I have finally decided to let it go. We were 24 and 25 when we began dating we are now 33 and No kids no ring, im done trying to figure this dude out. As a woman I can not chase a man and when I wait for the Aquarius male to take the lead, he never does and this has strung out over a decade. I love him deeply, and have professed my love, but he is like a robot no emotion. He tells me he loves me with no action.
It cant possibly take an Aquarius this long to figure out what they want. I dont know, im just afraid I will wake up and be 44 and still going with the flow as he likes it. He seems to put all his energy into his work. He talks about trying to get him self finacially stable, so that he can buy himself a house, but im confused as to why he is working so hard to establish a life, to what, still be alone, not like he is working towards having a family.
I dont get it. With my income and his we could be living great and already have a house. He is just so backwards sometimes, he talks about me and him having a baby, but shouldn't there be a commitment first? After 10 years we shouldnt be wondering where are we?
Im confused along with his family and mine considering they have watched this play out for years, his parents are like my parents his siblings are my brothers and sisters, we've gone threw sooo much , but he still has never reassured me as to what he wants from this, when I poor out my emotions he disappears then reappears like nothing happened, never addressing this obvious problem.
He made a statement while we were on the phone the other day saying " love is something he tries to avoid" , im like "what" love is the greatest thing you could ever experience in this life and it will continue to live on even after your gone. His sister told me he was crazy about a girl in high school, he went all out on Valetines day and bought her all kinds of things, then she made a fool of him and cheated. Out of the 10years we have been together he has never bought me anything for Valentines day.
I cant help, but wonder is this guy still hurt from a lil high school relationship he had as a teen and taking it out on me. I know they say Aquas hold on to the past, but geesh i feel as though im being punished for the girl that hurt him in high school, im like get over it already your My mother spoke to him and she said she never heard a man talk so loving about a woman before, like he is sooo in love with me.
I was confused by this considering he never put in any effort to make me happy and he is rarely there when i need him due to him being detached. All this does is just confuse me even more. Being a Scorpio I want to love and figure out why a person acts the way they do, and possibly help them fix the problem, I hate that I have wasted 10 years of my life for some one im not even sure cares.. Yes, there is always more to astrology. It's really based in math, so a couple of adjustments here and there can make a huge difference.
For some, they're more of a cusp than having a clear cut sign, and those are some of the most interesting and bizarre people. I wish you well. It sounds like there are some serious complications in this relationship and when you wrote this 6 months ago, it wasn't quite a formal deal.
Compatibility with Other Zodiac Signs
Yes, the water like energy of obsession can be difficult for an Aquarius to deal with. It's that squared energy from the zodiac circle that makes things difficult for the Aquarian. You both like the Scorpio and their charms, but there's also something that really, really sucks.
Such a lengthy comment. This was written by no means to trivialize compatibility or generalize it. There are successful Aquarius and Scorpio couples out there, and they do often run into the same problems and also joys. To each their own at the end of the day, some Scorpios just may not end up liking that odd mysterious energy they create with an Aquarius-folk, but some crave it pretty stark ravishingly mad. The big reason? Both of these signs are misunderstood.
It seems both you and your Scorpio never got far in understanding an Aquarius, and that's fine and fair. But if there is ever animosity toward a sign in the zodiac, that means something more about the person and the way they perceive the world, rather than certain signs being annoying, boring, or evil. My own grandparents were a Scorpio and Aquarius, and sure not everything was perfect about their romance -- but to be honest, it was about as perfect as it gets. My aquarius however turned my black and white world spinning with colors and voice.
We were friends for a couple of years before we turned romantic and we both want to be with eachother for the long run. We have the same ambition and dreams and we know we both need eachother to achieve them : Communication is a big one for us We moved fast really fast at first and it was hard understanding eachother. However now we read eachother like open books.
What It's Like to Date a Scorpio—If You Dare
My aquarius is so smart and often I feel maybe challenged like I need to be smarter. His first wife was Aquarius and he started cheating on her 6 months in. And this was not ideal for him. Scorpios crave loyalty and want stability and faithfulness in their relationships. If Scorpio cheats, something is terribly wrong. His ex was cold, emotionally detached and placed everyone else in the world on the same level or above my Scorpio. Big no no for both of us. Scorpio people have irreverent and kind of sick senses of humor.
We joke around many times by saying exactly the opposite of how we feel. Or saying things that not remotely pc. So then it just becomes fun to push their buttons. Look, ALL Scorpio people want a partner that cherishes them above all others, lusts after them, respects them, and allows them to let their guard down and be truly themselves.
Lastly, this is not meant to offend. Other Scorpio people with different charts may adore Aquarius. And i can guarantee that any Aquarius reading this would not enjoy our company, either. Things just go that way sometimes. That's why I loathe articles that generalize compatibility.
There is literally no way that one can predict these things. Im aqua and the man I'm with is scorpio, they do alter their personality in the beginning to be cool, calm and collected to draw you in but inside there emotions are deep running waters and I'm not lying, after they settled they slowly become obsessive, they dont have control over their emotions to the point they become possessive and jealous nd wants their partner all to themselves, they will start asking questions, checking your phone book etc.
It's so nice, i do love my creepy men but its also dangerous, because they are really subtle and observe everything and sum up everything, they are silent thinkers, and you dont know if or where they could follow you bcs they are like fit for detective work. Im flattered that he's obsessed and its because of my character, he enjoys my company, it says scorpios are selective and its nice to know that im special.
But having thought it through it wont be good in the long run, as they are dead serious about love and how dangerous will it get. I mean oj simpson is a water sign and look wt happend. But i wont even go there cs its not like that. Nevertheless there is so much positive, he treats me like royalty. They know how to keep you, you name it and the scorpio will do and even throw in surprise romantic moments. From opening the car door for you to making sure you got more of the bed duvet cover on your side to keep warm. Tell me thats not sweet.
I hope this is clear. As an Aquarian woman who has dated a Scorpio I must say this article is spot on for the most part. All the qualities Aquarius women desire and admire. Their downside and what made me fall out with my Scorpio mate is their obsessive possessiveness which can be quite intense and a major turn-off to an Aquarius woman. I am Aquarius Scorpio man with an Aquarius woman. I honestly couldn't imagine a more perfect partnership, on so many levels. We're best friends first and have invested a lot of effort into understanding one another.
I'm a female with sun sign Pisces and several placements in Scorpio as well Aquarius. I'm married to Aquarius guy, think it's the perfect blend. Because Aquarius guys not only need plain physical experience, also tenderness, non-extreme feelings, cuddling and feminine aura, which most Scorpio women simply lack.